Let's suppose you, as a boy, were sexually molested by your 14-year-old uncle when you were six months old, would you remember it? No, you will not remember the sexual molestation. However, if this molestation continued for four months and then stopped, you are not likely to have any conscience memory of it. Subconscietiously you are likely to retain the physical feelings of stimulus as you grow older. Assuming that you were the molested male infant, you may even feel, what you think, are natural attractions to the boys who are older than yourself and not give much thought to girls when around them. This would especially be the case if there is no one in your life who teaches you that those feelings are not natural. Such teachings are not as likely to be the case if the role of male and female, i.e., mother and father, is being played by two males or two females.